Former Bahstonians okay?

topic posted Tue, August 26, 2003 - 6:58 PM by  Stew
Hey, used to live in the South End, then Watertown, then outside Worcester, then kept moving west up to Vermont.

But I visited Boston last March and that familiar smell came rushing right back with memories.

I'd never want to live in a city again, but I miss Boston at times!
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Stew
Vermont
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    Mon, February 23, 2004 - 11:33 AM
    I'm sure there is a building on Park Drive I haven't lived in, but I'm not sure which one it might be. That the neighborhood is still standing impresses me. Whichever apartment I was living in usually felt strangely slanted, suggesting the building could well be returning to the bog from which it arose. I like Boston for a lot of reasons: the Brookline Booksmith's Writers series, the city's walkability, Bread & Circus and Park Street Station. But there's something hard about the city that has never been reconciled in my mind. Overall people seem meaner than people I meet elsewhere, but then I look at their voting habits and I'm confused. One day I might figure it out, but perhaps Boston is too much like family: I can't get the kind of objectivity required to see it clearly. I love it but at the same time I can't seem to function very well around it: there's something about it that throws me. So I live somewhere else.
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      Fri, May 7, 2004 - 4:06 PM
      I miss New England and Boston.

      One thing I notice that's diferent here in So Cal is the abense of the whole fishing culture.
      For instance, if you go to Woods Hole on the cape, you'll see fishing shacks and boats. Here in SD, all you see near the ocean is surfers and helicopters.
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        Tue, October 19, 2004 - 1:36 PM
        I was born in Quincy, grew up in Holbrook, spent 3 years on the Cape, now in San Jose, CA. I miss MA this time of year.

        BTW there is a huge fishing culture in northern CA, Santa Cruz, San Francisco, and points north like Fort Bragg.
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          Tue, October 19, 2004 - 3:34 PM
          Im in Los Osos Ca. 1/2 way between L.A. and S.F. Its nice that now that fall is here I dont feel a sense of impending doom that is butt ass cold winters
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            Mon, March 5, 2007 - 8:08 PM
            I grew up in Mansfield, moved to Maine (ayuh) for a while then back to Attleboro (and commuting to Boston for work) for several years before coming to Sacramento 6 years ago. My last winter there I spent shoveling my car out with a 9x12 baking pan because it had been plowed in. I swore never again. Sure I miss the seasons, especially the fall. The snow I can see with a short car ride to Tahoe. I just went back for a week to visit family and had fun listening to the accents again. Too funny!
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              Tue, March 6, 2007 - 6:41 AM
              I've lived in Brazil, Puerto Rico, Arizona, Colorado, NYC, Texas, Virginia and New Hampshire. I oved back to the Boston area a few years back and I'm here to stay. Those other places are fun to visit, but I'm done. This place is home.
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                Tue, March 6, 2007 - 7:16 AM
                Once a Bostonian, always a Bostonian. No other place on earth quite gets the narrow-minded, acid biting, cynical eye on life joy like Boston.
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                  Tue, March 6, 2007 - 9:01 AM
                  Someone needs a hug...
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                    Re: Former Bahstonians okay?

                    Tue, March 6, 2007 - 9:02 AM
                    wicked bad.
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                      Thu, March 22, 2007 - 11:54 AM
                      Okay, here goes.

                      My Dad was born Southie, then grew up in Springfield. Went to BC. His family had a little cottage in Green Harbor. We used to go there.

                      I visited my great-grandfather a few times with my Dad in a three-floor walk-up in Dorchester. We used to bring him parakeets, and he smoked cigars and ate Grape Nuts.

                      Mom was born in Newfoundland, moved to (I think) to Roxbury waaaaaaaay back in the day, then mostly grew up in Newton (Corner.) Her Dad (my grandfather) built wooden ships in NFLD, and then houses i Quincy. Mom went to Our Lady's, which I think is called something else now (Catholic school,) and later to BU (voice, languages) and Babson (business.) She retired in Sudbury and then Wellesley. Now she's in a nursing home near me (Santa Monica, CA).

                      I was born in St. Louis, but when I was little, we lived with my grandparents for awhile in Newton Corner, and then Scituate, where I started school. Newton and Scituate were both great for different reasons.

                      (Do people still say "keen'? I remember we used to say 'wicked keen'.)

                      Then we had to move to PA - my Mom cried, and I don't blame her. Very negative place. Bad accent too. We were not allowed to pick it up.

                      We still went to the Cape for vacations. Then I went to college in Western Mass. Also some family reunions in Newburyport.

                      I still have cousins back there, but not real close ones. I wish I did.

                      New England is a magical place.
                      • I almost forgot

                        Thu, March 22, 2007 - 11:58 AM
                        I was born on St. Patrick's Day, so for my 21st birthday, a college friend of mine and I stayed with my Mom near Newton and went into Boston for the day. I'm not much of a drinker, but it was fun! Somehow we missed the parade - it must have been the day before or something...
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                        Thu, March 22, 2007 - 1:56 PM
                        Nice memories. Did you live in Newton Corner before, or after it burned down. Was there a Radio Shack in it? I'm a newton boy originally. No, "Wicked Keen" was replaced by "Friggin Awesome"
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                          Sun, March 25, 2007 - 9:11 AM
                          I think it's time to bring wicked kenn back. I'm officially starting now...!

                          Wicked keeeeeeeeen!
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                            Sun, March 25, 2007 - 1:55 PM
                            I think "wicked" is still around. But, sorry, I never used keen.

                            I grew up in Roxbury (Huntington Ave). Moved to Roslindale. I own a house in Lunenburg - about 1.5 west of Boston, north of Worcester. My folks still live in Boston and I visit often. But, I have some elbow room out here.
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                            Wed, April 23, 2008 - 10:17 PM
                            I found an old ad with that Keen in it I was talking about - woo hoo!

                            I'll post it in pics...

                            plus a nice pic of sunset in Scituate...

                            wicked keeeeeeeeeeeen!
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                              Wed, April 30, 2008 - 2:09 PM
                              I as well don't remember wicked keeeeeen but I do remember, and still use occasionally, wicked pissa. Actually 'wicked' anything is good in my book. The California translation of 'wicked' is 'hecka' if it is okay and 'hella' if it is really great.
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    Wed, March 28, 2007 - 11:33 AM
    I find myself missing Boston from time to time, though I haven't lived there for years. I grew up in Scituate and I remember my dad driving my brother and I into the city for the first time at night when we were really little. There was such a magic to it... all of the lights and activity. I remember asking if it was Christmas because it was so dazzling and beautiful. Then getting to be a bit older, old enough for the folks to drop off a friend and I at the Quincy T so we could spend the day cruising all the used record shops like Planet, Mystery Train, In Your Ear and Nuggets. I ended up moving to the city in college and staying there for a good five or six years, following the cheaper rents from Boston to Brighton and eventually to JP. I was a cyclist... never had a car, and because of that, I feel like I got to know the city in a really intimate way... sometimes it felt like "my" city. I loved it! But for every aspect that I loved, there were also things I came to despise. The gentrification of every last affordable neighborhood, the smell of stale pee in every dark corner, and the winters where you develop back problems just looking down all the time trying to avoid slipping and falling on poorly shoveled sidewalks. Turns out, I'm just not a city girl anymore. I'm living in Ashland Oregon these days and absolutely loving it.... though there are many, many times where I find myself missing the grit and sarcasm that I grew up with. Boston is a special city and I'm looking forward to adventuring there again someday.
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    Tue, March 25, 2008 - 5:36 PM
    I am not from Boston but Braintree, have been in Florida since 1992, but I go visit my mom in West Roxbury every year, I miss Boston, it is a great place to be from

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